Hi, I'm Summer!

I resonate with the words of clinical researcher, Brene Brown:

“We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness and affection.”

I am a licensed psychotherapist, teacher, and facilitator dedicated to the pathways of emotional, somatic, and spiritual development. My work now lives at the intersection of embodied intelligence, presence work, ritual, and threshold experiences, and I am passionate about co-creating environments where inner wisdom can surface in meaningful and life-giving ways.

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What I Value

Compassionate Self-Relationship

My work begins with compassionate self-contact, meeting oneself with honesty, tenderness, and a willingness to stay close to what is true. I value environments where people can safely explore vulnerability, express complexity, and relate to their inner experience without judgment or pressure to change. Compassion creates the internal conditions for genuine transformation.

Embodiment as Wisdom

I hold the body as a wise and trustworthy source of intelligence. Embodiment is not an add-on but a central portal to emotional, psychological, and spiritual understanding. Through somatic attunement, presence practices, and experiential learning, I support people in reconnecting with the signals, truths, and capacities that live within their bodies.

Psychology + Spirituality

I value the meeting place between psychological development and spiritual depth. My work integrates somatic awareness, trauma-informed care, and parts work with contemplative wisdom, ritual, and inquiry. This intersection allows people to engage their inner world with nuance, humility, and a sense of the sacred.

Relational Presence

I believe healing unfolds within relationship—our relationship to ourselves, to others, to community, and to something larger than us. I value sincere human connection, authenticity, and the relational field that emerges in group spaces. The intelligence of the collective often reveals what an individual cannot access alone.

A Path of Surrender Over Striving

I value a path rooted in surrender rather than striving—a decolonized approach to growth that honors pacing, consent, and reverence. Growth is not a performance or self-improvement project. It does not come from forcing ourselves, overriding our system, or pushing past our adaptive strategies.

Striving often emerges from old patterns of survival, productivity, or perfectionism. Surrender, in contrast, is about curiosity, attunement, and allowing. It means meeting our protective strategies with compassion and embodiment so that, over time, we discover we have more choice.

Viktor Frankl wrote, “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space lies our power to choose, and within our choice lies our freedom.”
My work is about expanding that space, so we can respond from presence rather than pattern.

John O’Donohue spoke of approaching life with reverence, and this spirit lives in my approach. When we meet our inner experience with reverence instead of force, we begin to see the barriers that obscure our freedom, truth, and belonging.

Surrender is not passive; it is a deeply intentional practice of softening into what is real, letting ourselves be guided, and allowing transformation to arise from within rather than being imposed from above.

My Approach

My work is rooted in presence, curiosity, and embodied awareness. I guide individuals and groups to explore their experience with compassion, noticing patterns and protective strategies without judgment or force. Through somatic practices, inquiry, ritual, and experiential exercises, we create space for choice, insight, and freedom to emerge. Playfulness and openness are essential, allowing exploration to unfold with ease and curiosity rather than striving. Grounded in surrender, reverence, and consent, the work unfolds naturally, supporting deeper awareness, relational intelligence, and embodied learning.

Why I Do This Work

I’m energized by catalyzing group learning and supporting participants as they cross inner thresholds. I care about the subtle moments when someone reconnects with their own truths, feels their grief move, locates their inner authority, or experiences a sense of belonging with themselves.

It is a privilege to walk alongside others as they learn to inhabit their bodies with more presence, courage, and compassion. I offer my vulnerable humanity, my training, and the knowledge gathered from years of personal and professional exploration.

I am a daughter, wife, mother, sister, friend, and fellow human being, carrying both gifts and growth edges. My family grounds me and reminds me of the importance of presence in everyday life. I bring this same openness and creativity into my work, offering a vulnerable and attuned presence to those I guide. I hold sacred the privilege of exploring, learning, and supporting others in their growth journey. By approaching our experience with curiosity and embodied presence, we create the conditions for transformation to emerge.

Lineage and Influences

My work is informed not only by my clinical training but also by my ongoing study within the Diamond Approach—a contemporary wisdom school founded by A. H. Almaas and Karen Johnson that integrates psychological depth, experiential inquiry, and spiritual realization. This path supports my own unfolding and deeply shapes the way I guide presence, embodiment, and inner exploration.

I am also grateful for the teachers and wisdom traditions that continue to nourish my development, including Tara Brach,  Carl Jung, Dan Siegel, Gabor Maté, Richard Rohr, Cynthia Bourgeault, Francis Weller, Russ Hudson, Bill Plotkin, Elder Malidoma Somé, Maya Luna, Linda Thai, Philip Shepherd,  Daniel Foor, and the writings of mystics across many traditions. Their perspectives live in the background of my work and expand the way I meet others on their growth journeys.

 

Invite me to facilitate your group or organization, or to conduct a team workshop for you.

Seasoned Facilitator and Coach

After spending 17 years as a licensed mental health clinician, my passion has shifted from  one-on-one therapy to bringing the Healing Arts into a variety of different in-person and online experiences.  

I like working with transformative modalities and enjoy the larger and creative context that emerges outside of traditional mental health counseling. I focus on perennial wisdom, teachings from cutting edge clinical researchers and psychologists, the Enneagram, and somatic and mindfulness practices.

I have lead workshops for non profits, churches, spoke at the Triad Coaching Connection, and love being on faculty with The Second Breath Center. For the last 2 years I have conducted an Enneagram training for the Chaplain Residents at Cone Health. This 15-hour workshop is conducted over 5 weeks and is designed to give participants the space they need to absorb teachings and apply them to their professional callings and personal lives.

At Embodied Intelligence, I’m excited to create a similar experience for you, to disperse this  wisdom into the larger community.

Licensed Psychoterapist and Credentials

With a dual degree in Interpersonal Communication Studies and History from UNC Chapel Hill and a Seminary Masters degree in Integration of Theology and Community Mental Health, my workshops, groups, and teaching methodology are inspired by the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and neuroscience.  

In working as a clinical therapist, I learned early that working with one’s body is  foundational for creating healing and anchors ourselves to our inner guidance and systems  of support. The body is the pathway to being present and being in communion with the  world around us.

I study embodiment intelligence with expert Phillip Shepherd and have completed three years of training in Conscious Connected Breathwork. Having learned to embrace the power of my own breath, I’m honored to facilitate individual and group retreats/training to bring this experience to others!  

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As a student of the Enneagram for over ten years, I completed my training under the  tutelage of world-renowned Enneagram expert, Russ Hudson, at the Enneagram Institute in NY in 2019. 

In addition, I have served as a core faculty member at The Second Breath Center in Greensboro, NC. There, I am honored to foster the incredible vision of this organization through teaching classes that intersect psychology and spiritually and by facilitating Enneagram and Breath workshops.  

Launching Embodied Intelligence is the next manifestation of my spiritual and professional  passion. At Embodied Intelligence, I’m thrilled to build upon all of this work and offer spaces to discover whole hearted living.

Embodied Intelligence Mission Statement

Embodied Intelligence mission is to create a safe and supportive space and community where we can examine old limiting narratives and re imagine, explore, and discover for ourselves a story where LOVE is the protagonist.

At Embodied Intelligence, we use a variety of tools and practices, and draw upon perennial wisdom traditions to invite you into this Great Love Story.

With like hearted seekers we explore the barriers within us and welcome home our shadow and orphaned parts within. We’ll bravely look at what we project onto others, and we’ll examine our world view, including our limiting beliefs and old stories that no longer serve us. We will invite you to uncover a fierce orientation that’s rooted in self-love.

We’ll help you tap into yourself, into your vulnerable inner space, and you’ll begin to experience the reality of what Wisdom Traditions have been saying all along: LOVE is our greatest reality.

As you begin to reorient to this story through an attuned body, receptive heart, and open mind, we’ll move through the challenges of our time with awareness and engaged action. We’ll become co-creative with this radical protagonist that is Love. We’ll unearth possibility and give voice to this force, allowing it to move through us out into the world.

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